Jan 21
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Nov 16
People make choices. They have a sense of self or some idea of who they are. The attitude people have about themselves influences the choices they make. We talk about that attitude almost without conscious understanding. But that sense of self motivates our choices. Here's a concept that helps us understand the relationship between self and choice. Self-Esteem is a product of that relationship.
Self-Esteem: You hear the word and people talk like they know what it means. You might even be one of them.
But what is it? Self-Esteem:
- Something we say people need
- Something we say people have or
- Something we say people don't have enough of...and
- Something we say makes a difference
So, what exactly is it and how do you get it?
Self-esteem is not the same thing as self-centered. In fact, self-centered behavior is a signal that a person is in need of self-esteem.
Here's a link to Self-Esteem: What It Is and How You Can Get Some, a Squidoo Lens I wrote about the concept. There you'll find a description of self-esteem, how it originates, and how you can benefit from understanding self-esteem.
Nov 13
Self-efficacy is the belief in your own capacity to succeed in specific circumstances. For example, researchers have shown people have computer self-efficacy. That is to say, they believe they have the ability to use computers.
Self-efficacy is believed to be a more accurate predictor of behavior than personality measures. This is because self-efficacy is much more specific and measures behavior that is situational and transitional. Personality measures represent long-term, enduring patterns of behavior.
Self-efficacy is measurable. Researchers are able to construct tests which accurately measure self-efficacy. With a properly constructed test, it is possible to compare one computer user's self-efficacy with another users.'
Computer of self-efficacy is one of several tools used to study computer users' behavior. One advantage of using self-efficacy constructs to study behavior is the level of detail they provide. Properly constructed, self-efficacy measures may be used to enhance information gathered from focus groups and tools like Google Analytics.
More about using multiple measures to understand behavior will follow in future posts.
Nov 11
One way to understand how people, families, groups, teams, and organizations change is to use a theory to interpret what you're observing. The transtheoretical model of change describes change by using terms that name distinct stages of change. Those stages are:
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Precontemplation--the period when people are not anticipating making the specified change.
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Contemplation--the period when people are intending to change sometimes during the next few months.
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Preparation--the period when people are intending to take action to initiate the change in the near future.
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Action--the period when people have made specific (overt) modifications in their behavior within the last few months.
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Maintenance--the period when people are working to prevent relapse to prior habits or behavior patterns (usually a time period from a few months to five years in length).
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Termination--the period when people have zero temptation and 100% self-efficacy for preventing returning to the behavior(s) that existed prior to the Action stage.
Future posts will describe the processes of change and self-efficacy.
Nov 10
Albert Bandura, the social learning theorist, tells us that people learn three ways. We learn by:
- Observing others perform the task.
- Imitating the way others complete the task.
- Mentally rehearsing the task.
The relationships we have with others are the contexts where we learn.
Nov 8
Five reasons why it's good to understand learning and motivation.
- You'll know how your loved ones make they're decisions.
- You'll know what to expect next.
- You'll be more effective as a member of a team.
- You'll be able to set goals and attain them.
- You'll be able to lead.
Future posts will describe learning theory, motivation, life-span development, perception, cognition, intelligence and tips about how to use that information.